Duties of the Spirit by Patricia Fargnoli Tupelo Press, 2005
“The question that he asks in all but words,” says Robert Frost of his Oven Bird, “is what to make of a diminished thing.” The poems of Pat Fargnoli’s Duties of the Spirit ask this question in the most carefully chosen words, longing, glimmering words that speak to readers of all ages of what it is like to grow old and of the kind of prisons age makes and windows it opens. Pat Fargnoli’s poems ache and yearn; they bring desire to a high pitch of intensity that lasts long after the book is closed. They return at odd moments, by line, by title, by image, after the reader goes back to his or her own life.
The theme is encapsulated in the title poem. Its epigraph is “One of the duties of the spirit is joy, and another is serenity...” taken from a letter from Thornton Wilder written in 1930. And these two duties, plus the third that Fargnoli has added, grief, are the subject of this book; the ﬁrst two are duties because they are worked for and hard won, but they are gifts too, and the third duty, grief, weighs against but also enhances the other two. The book is divided into three sections, which seem somewhat to follow the three duties, mingled as they are in all.
“Duties of the Spirit” ends
And if the ﬁrst duty of the spirit is leaping joy, and the second, the slow stroll of serenity,
then grief, the third, comes bending on his walking stick, holding a trowel to dig where the loves have gone,
and he weighs down your shoulders, ties a rawhide necklace hung with a stone around your neck, and hangs on and on. But the ﬁrst is slippery joy.
The poem is a kind of coda, though it doesn’t end the sequence–the others pick up the motifs and ﬂesh them out with rich imagery and experience.
These translucent poems show the pain of growing older, of the sadness of one loss after another, friends, pets, even physical freedom, physical space. The speaker’s world shrinks, yet even as it shrinks it opens out–the smallest things provide a kind of satisfaction that
seems a grace. And as pain is weighed against joy, even the smallest joys are not separatefrom pain. The strikingly memorable poem “Pistachios” presents the nuts as emblem of thelittle worldly pleasures as well as example, and the speaker begins with the physical nut:“Think of them in their smooth brown cases/ or cracked open to white meat shiny as atooth.” The thought widens from the pleasure of the nut to associated thoughts of love andthen of pain, war, and disaster, which cannot be separated from the world’s joys, and thenreturns to the nut itself, which becomes a reminder of Eden–since in a world of pain somesmall joys are necessary: the pistachio is “the simple nourishment,/ the hard welcome apple,/the fallen fruit”.
The presence of nature, the birds that remind us of life’s vitality and also vulnerability, thejoy taken in the simplest of pleasures highlight this book. Animals and insects abound,providing their vitality and another underscoring of transience. The particulars are soindividualized they stamp themselves on the mind, heightening the reader’s pleasure in thethings of the world. There is the sense of the importance of the particulars, the necessity ofrecording them so that the surface of an individual life can be saved and savored. These arepoems that transcend the life they narrate, and that arrive at a compassion that is general.
Style is open and ﬂowing free verse, some meditations, some narratives. The lyrics pilepoignant details up into a richly textured picture. The narratives crackle with the energy offull participation in experience. “Locked” is an example–the speaker and her fellow bustravelers come back after their shared outing to a dangerous neighborhood only to ﬁnd thegate to the parking lot locked; so that they are unable to retrieve their cars. From an upperwindow, they overhear a woman who “belts out an aria of pain”:
Fuck you, you liar, you fucking asshole.
Above the cries of a child, above the raped-womanhowl of a siren, she belts it.
I know you’re cheating. I can’t take it.I’m leaving...
The scene and their own unwilling presence as observers galvanize the group until one of them, “the guy in the wrinkled/ blue suit” manages to heave himself over the fence and break the lock. The reader is drawn into this scene too, and feels the shock of what it is like to be temporarily locked out of one’s life, an unhappy presence in others’, witness to a scene that is no part of one’s normal daily experience but somehow makes the tedium of the ordinary more bearable, even while providing a shot of adrenaline. And the poem is funny–the burst of freedom, the bus travelers’ haste to leave, and get back to their own more predictable lives, concludes the narrative:
…………And who cares by what right he riﬂes the cars for tools, and skilled as a cat man, dismantles the lock–or by what right all of us, lean our shoulders into the heavy gate, shove it back,
leap for our cars, and get the hell out of there.
“Locked” turns out to be an energetic, almost joyous poem.
In the diminution of life that is caused by age, small pleasures loom large, becomesacraments almost. But the real power of the book is a social and spiritual dimension. Thespeaker is wounded, her poems suggest the depth of the injury but do not describe it. Thereemerges from them only generosity and compassion. Grief makes others’ griefunderstandable; a community of loss emerges, What one has is what one has left; what onedoes is, share it.
Fargnoli’s book takes the reader by surprise again and again. There is nothing startling in itspremise or wildly experimental in style, but the poems never fail to provide a sense ofrecognition and renewal. They heighten the senses of the reader through the poet’s lovingappreciation of the physical world and her reaching toward the metaphysical. They remindthe reader of the kind of spirituality of Mary Oliver and Denise Levertov, although Fargnolichooses no ﬁnal form for the holy. Her appreciation of nature, her sadness at the closing-offof the world, the sense of woundedness that pervades these poems are balanced by anacceptance and even a fragile and tenuous happiness. Duties of the Spirit provides a sense ofwhat it is to be fully awake to the world, to be growing older, to observe the changes thataging brings. The poems do not evade or gloss over, yet they do provide a kind of joy thatcomes from the integrity of a life well lived and fully known.